ARGUING WITH GOD

In the Bible stories, arguing with God seems to be one of the common experiences of those who spoke directly with God. Abraham argued with God in an extended negotiation about the fate of Sodom and Gomorrah (see Genesis 18:16–33).

Jacob wrestled with God Himself, both physically and spiritually, it seems (see Genesis 32:22–32). Moses argued with God about His call to return to Egypt and lead the Israelites out of slavery (see Exodus 4:1–17). Arguing with God seems to be an important element of a healthy and fearless relationship between God and His people. But perhaps more important are the many times that Moses interceded with God on behalf of the people of Israel.

Moses recalled their idolatry with the golden calf soon after they had encountered God at Mount Sinai when He gave them the Ten Commandments (see Deuteronomy 9:7–13). “You also made the LORD angry at Taberah, at Massah and at Kibroth Hattaavah,” Moses continued. “You have been rebellious against the Lord ever since I have known you” (Deuteronomy 9:22, 24). On each occasion, God’s anger threatened to destroy the people.

And on each occasion, despite Moses’ own anger and frustration and God’s offer to make a nation of Moses and his family, Moses argued with God, appealing to His goodness and mercy, and reminding Him that these were His people (see Deuteronomy 9:25–29). On each occasion, God changed His mind and withdrew His threats.

A relationship with God includes arguing with Him, voicing our questions and disappointments, appealing to His love and grace, and advocating for others and for our world. It seems a relationship with God gives Him more options.