Lessons From a Three-Year-Old Child

It was the trip of a lifetime.

Together with our two adult children and their families my husband and I rented RVs and toured some of the major national parks in the western United States of America. We went to Zion, Bryce, and the Grand Canyon. The sights were breathtaking.

We were amazed by the majesty of the mountains at Zion.

We explored the hoodoos of Bryce and visited Sunrise and Sunset Points. Finally, at the Grand Canyon, we rode the rim trail on mules.

Such a remarkable trip, lots of hiking, exploring, and focusing on the majesty of God. So many biblical lessons for us all. One lesson, however, did not come from the beauties of nature; it came from our three-year-old grandson, Sebastian.

As we hiked the canyon overlook in Zion, we learned a valuable lesson. The canyon overlook is only a half-mile (0.8-kilometer) hike; however, it is a strenuous uphill hike, narrow at places, precipitous, and rocky. On our way up the hill, we kept insisting that Sebastian hold our hands because it was a dangerous hike. However, he kept declaring, “I got it! I do not need any help!” His aunt disagreed and insisted on holding his hand. Sebastian found this disappointing. Finally, I tenderly said, “Sebastian, why not hold Mimi’s hand? We can walk together.” Imagine my surprise when Sebastian declared firmly, “I do not want to hold anybody’s hand. I do not need any help.” We chuckled, assured him this was not an option, and continued along the treacherous trail. We were amazed that a three-year-old could be so confident in his ability to maneuver a trail many others refused to hike. However, it dawned on me afterward that often, when confronted with a problem, I do the same with the Lord. I wonder if you do too? Struggling with marital problems? “I got it. I do not need any help.” Suffering over the death of a loved one? “I got it. I do not need any help.” Difficult experiences with children or friends? “I got it. I do not need any help.” Jesus offers to hold our hand and lead us over life’s treacherous trails and even pick us up and hold us. Instead, we assume our skills are sufficient. Sometimes God sends others to help us, friends and spiritual mentors, and our response is the same, “I got it; I do not need any help.” I am sorry, Lord! Please help me recognize my limitations and accept Your offer of help.

Edith C. Fraser