“My Dear Son”

When you think of your parents (or whoever raised you), what comes to your mind? Do you still remember their wise counsel and helpful guidance? What moral values did they believe you would carry for life? Do you still keep their written correspondence to you? On August 11, 1868, Ellen White wrote an insightful letter on character development to her nineteen-year-old son Edson.

She began by saying, “I am thankful to our heavenly Father for the efforts you are making to overcome every defect of character. It is the overcomers who will see Jesus as He is, and be made like Him.” She then advised him to continue to “walk in the light which God has given.” He should not only pray but also live his prayers. As a loving mother, Ellen encouraged her son to keep a clear conscience.

She counseled, “Make the will of God your rule of conduct in all things —in small matters as well as great... How pleasant, how satisfactory, will be the recollection all through life that though exposed to many and fierce temptations, your hands were unstained by dishonesty, and your heart undefiled by cherishing temptation.” On the topic of finances, Ellen added, “Extravagance must have resources, and if money cannot be obtained honestly, it will be obtained dishonestly. A love of pleasure, of fine clothing, has brought many a youth to prison, and even to the gallows. Always make it a point to live within your income. Do without things rather than incur a debt. Never purchase an article until you can pay for it.” Ellen directed her son’s attention to the moral integrity exemplified by Joseph, who “learned to govern, by first learning to obey.” She concluded, “My dear son, do not get above the simplicity of a humble Christian life. Let the character of Joseph be your character; let his strength to resist temptation be your strength. Your efforts will be successful if you make them in the strength of God. Jesus is a present help. May the blessing of Jesus ever rest upon you, is the prayer of your Mother.” Today is a good day to reflect on the wise advice you received from your parents and other true Christians. By God’s grace, this day can be a new beginning in your life!